Bill, I thought I was reading about myself as I read your post. Breaking ties with friends is very difficult. In my case, the sax man was in charge of bookings and he let it get away from him so we kind of died. I tried a couple times to find work for us, but the market was not in out favor.

My suggestion would be to sit down with at least one member and mention your concerns. Maybe if the word gets to the others they will react positively, OR maybe even surprise you by leaving on their own.

I know I prefer playing with others, the more the merrier. But playing in a band always has its trials and tribulations, especially when you're the one putting out 80% of the combined efforet.

Best of luck; keep us informed.