Bill ...
I'm glad I never had this problem in 26 years with the same guys ...
But that doesn't help you ...
You should talk to them, give them a 'crystal clear' idea of how you feel, and if they don't want to respond, then YOU have a decision to make - either accept the status quo, or 'cut the ties that bind' ...
I feel for you, because 25 years later I still miss playing with 'my guys', but our breakup was solely due to my relocation to another state ...

Good luck,

t.