Any form of dependancy is a "self inflicted" wound. It can't happen unless YOU allow it to. It's like alcohlism or depression - both valid physical symptoms, but 100% curable, and very possible to avoid. People need to take more responsibility for their OWN actions and worry less about what others may think or do.
Pierce, I know you mean well, but preaching about the evils of songs on a music site is going to get you nowhere.
Let's get off the couch and back on stage, kay?