Dave I am well aware of the damage caused. The experience I talk of is not therapists words. I will always discuss my experiences - surely you couldnt concieve of me saying that love or being hurt is wrong. I am talking of where we are dependent --ie an addiction to a person. Anyway I stand admonished but I do not think you are aware of co-dependency when you say that songs are exempt. I put alot of effort into what I say and it is with love - sure I get hurt - a lover does. Too many relationships break up over co dependency Dave and I just done my bit of sharing so thanks is the rational response I'd expect but I dont really need it. Thats the difference. I love you anyway.
Hope all is well. I repeat that alot of songs cause trouble and I am fully aware of it. Pierce