It is wisdom not to compare what is needed on the job with what I feel at home where I do what I like to do. (Musically that is, grin)

I do not play along with, or sing with SMF files when I am at home. Home and jobs are two different venues. When I become more important than the person who has hired me to do a job I feel I have crossed over the line of good ethics both as a musician and a person.

When I played a wedding or an anniversary I want those people to have a time they will not forget –and so goes my career and success in the business.
Think of the other person first and then we get blessed.

IMHO, John C.