Squeak,
Not playing for 20s is not snobbish, it's doing THEM a favor. I have a 20 year old and he would hire me LAST to do his party

That said, I could go the smf route, but like Ian said, it's about where and who we want to play for. I'm content to stay away from wedding gigs, etc. Been there, done that, don't need it.
Besides, the senior market certainly allows one to stretch and I do my fair share of kick---- music
