YIKES! I just looked at the length of this original post - man, what a diatribe!
Thanks to all if you who actually read it!
You are a good story teller.
Thanks for sharing.
How did she react when you said “ it’s over”? Any warning signs?
Does she have a life other than coming and bad mouthing you?
I’ m sure when you are singing songs she is imagining that it was her and it will not end.
Unless , she can see you have moved on with another female.
She needs to see it ( unfortunately) to break her heart.
Sometimes you do have to break hearts to move on. I’ve been there.
Good luck and again, thanks for sharing in detail.