Semi,

Sorry to hear about your friend.

I personally don't handle things like this very well. However, I'm usually a rock that shows very little emotion.

Having lost many loved ones over the years, the most important thing to accomplish here is face the realization that she is passing and to take the opportunity to say goodbye.

It sounds cold, but having the opportunity to spend the last days with a loved one and say a final goodbye is a very cleansing and healing time for everyone.

Be strong my friend...
Al