If it were not for the ladies, most of us would be out of business. The ladies enjoy hearing us sing and play, they love to dance and party, they love singing along with us. The guys, well they're in the audiences because of the ladies. For the most part, they could care less about the music. They would would rather watch TV sports, drink beer, fart, belch and eat fattening food than dance with the ladies. Yes, there are exceptions, but they tend to be rare.