I'm am so Angry with my New Purchase.............

I always use a APEX pro two tier stand for years, but needed a X stand for studio and smaller gigs also....here's the story,.........I bought a heavy duty "On Stage X stand" well built with 30mm tubes to fit the collar of my Ultimate support Mic Boom.......BUT,.....since it only has FIVE height positions I couldn't find the correct one to fit my needs playing sitting down......either too high or too low.
I sent it back to the store and exchanged it for the
Ultimate Support IQ3000 X Heavy Duty stand that has NINE Positions...it came today ...wow what a super stand and the 9 positions work for me BUT,...the TUBES are bigger then 30mm which DON'T FIT THE COLLAR OF MY MIC BOOM!!!!

I cont seem to find another mic boom that will attache to this stand......does anyone know of a universal type adjustable Mic boom that would fit this stand, don't know exactly the tube diameter but its bigger then 30mm. ....
I don't want to carry a separate Mic Boom.

Pissed in NJ....