Kn,
I myself do not think you are overly sensitive....I'm not sure I believe anyone Can be overly sensitive to the feelings of others.....but...I would say musicians that gig weddings on a regular basis know this is part and parcel of the territory. I don't think it much different than those playing supper clubs and have to put up with 100 conversations going on, dishes clanking, cell phones ringing etc, again just part of the territory on this end of the feeding chain.

The very coolest club I've ever played years ago, called "Amazing Grace" stopped all service during a set and it was made clear that loud and rude behaviour would get the patron an escort to the door......gone are those days.
Terry

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jam on,
Terry http://imjazzed.homestead.com/Index.html