i just thought i would post a new thread about good friends,we all have lots of aquaintences but how many of you have really good friends?what makes a good friend?they say to have many friends you need to be a good friend 1st,all my life both my wife and i have bought our friends,you know if they need money you lend it and then its a job to get it back or they keep out of your way, and so they are not friends, you help someone out using your labour maybe help with their car or house or garden or whatever,but when you need help there are always excusses,,,WHY ARE PEOPLE LIKE THIS we don,t have any REAL friends,what have we been doing wrong?lets see if we can get a lot of feedback on this,cause i am really curious as to how others see this,mike