I guess the difference is, I don't book myself and who I am playing with out as a 'wedding band'. My wedding gigs come from the bridal party or someone connected seeing us do our regular act, and booking us to do that...

I always try to let the bride and groom pick a 'first dance', and will try to learn it if not part of the normal repertoire. Learnt a few good songs that way I would never have normally tried.

But, they hire me, they already know what they are getting...