Not everyone's society likes to sugar coat their words like they do in America, it's true... even allowing for translation difficulties, there is the question of national conversation styles.
Of course, due to the insular nature of American society (most of them couldn't even tell you what the capital of Belgium is, or what languages are spoken there), they have little idea that people in other parts of the world don't necessarily beat around the bush as much as we do here.
All one has to do is look at our political system, and our politicians to get a handle on that, though!
Y'all have a nice day, now, y'hear...!
[This message has been edited by Diki (edited 09-30-2008).]