It happens more than you realize UD.  Ex'es remarrying that is.  I read about it a lot and a lot of times it turns out to be peaches and cream the second time around.  

  The kids have grown up or almost grown up  

 and therefore it gives a couple more time to really get to know one another better and at a more leisurely pace.  

Best,
Mike
 
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