I love the fact I play by "ear" too, although sometimes I wish I paid more attention during "A" Level music so I could read as well..........but if I had to choose, playing by ear, to me, is more natural.

I play virtually everything in the key of "F", and can play most songs quickly without much thought in this key, however if I am to play in another key, I actually have to learn the song.

Transpose was a wonderful invention Although it can lead to laziness, with me being a prime example.

I hope Jared isn't discouraged by all that mathematical stuff above.

Music is an art form. To turn it into a scientific endeavour is a total 180 degree turnabout - art and science equate to oil and water, if you get my drift. Math hardly comes from the heart.

Jared, just find yourself a good teacher and stick with him/her. Unless you have an exceptional ear, it really is the only way to go. Practically every good musician you've ever heard has put in countless hours of practice. That's the simple truth, and I wish you every success in your musical journey.