Jim, the difference..on line comments, you don't have to face consequences for your actions[words]...allowing most of us to get away with anything we say....In the real "bar"...you are face to face, and comments that we put in print on line..if they were spoken in the presence of my family or friends..would probably annoy me enough..that you would land on your butt...very much unlike a tea party...BTW, I love my tea,,matter of fact, I am going to have a cup now..