INSTANT? We sang together in a band over 20 years ago. I was with her all through her pregnancy with her first child ...... we spent endless hours on the phone, made dinner (AND Whoopie)together ....... she's "best friend" all the way .... it's just the romantic angle that suddenly resurfaced. Plus - I'm an all-er-nothin kind of person when I fall. I fall fast and hard, and I wouldn't want it any other way. These miles are nothing more than a slight inconvenience ....... besides - I LOVE flying !