Hey Jim, sorry to hear about your gig from hell, especially, after much effort and terrible conditions. I have weathered the same elements, but not a perfect storm like you had. I have up and left a venue a couple of times due to, what I considered, personal affronts, not music criticism. I have to admit, however, that I am not thick skinned about my chosen trade, but am venturing out of my comfort zone to bring people an enhanced performance. Because of the Covid-19 hiatus, I have worked hard to improve without having to prepare for my band, Karaoke, dinners, and NH gigs.
The new me has it's inherent dangers, as well as personal rewards. The venue I played for has shut down after being there three times a week for seventeen years. I am picking up some party gigs that requires a more aggressive approach. I will put on my hardhat and steel jock strap and let her go.
I may get bruised feelings, but, like Jim, I have been around too long to fold.
Bernie, you and I sound alike. Thanks for the post