Alot of the other forums & boards I used to frequent the Original Posters are trying to "make it" either as a performer or songwriter. So the criticism needs to be honest, sometimes brutally. On this board I do take the high road when someone says their live audience says they are the bomb when my ears tell me a different story when I hear their music.
This place is more "homey" & there are many hobbyists, who are NOT pursuing a career or fame. It is important for me not to offend them as they have no illusions of grandeur.
But if someone "thinks" they are good on this forum, & they are average, at least to these ears, I will simply let it ride.
Excellent post.
chas