When the weather breaks in Michigan, the wife and I like to go to different lakes to kayak (even though we live on one, we mix it up). So we hoist the boats on the Jeep and go.
I am fortunate that I can go to Cincinnati and play music 4x or so per year to stay with my kids/grand kids for the week.
Other than that, wife works full time and I play "Pool Boy" most of the time around here, which includes a lot of grilling, fixing up the place, overseeing the dogs and cat and general oversight of our place we love, called HOME.
Once in a while, my wife drags me to her (hobby) photo shoots, but she gets up too early in the morning for me
