Diki ... the sooner you embrace the limitations of the digital world and stop comparing to the "live" counterparts - you can start really enjoying the benefits that they offer. I can give you lots of reasons why I'm GLAD I don't have a live drummer. For ONE - there are rooms I work that won't ALLOW one because of the bad rep they created for themselves. Just sayin ...
I love my great musician friends too, but there are many, many instances where digital Ringo is the drummer of choice.