no offense, but if I'd hear someone playing covers with an arranger keyboard, I would not feel compelled to give applauses. This is not because I am mean ,or because I am diminishing your job in any ways.. I would simply assume that you are doing your job, no more and no less.
Maybe I am wrong, but I think that the audience perceives the above in the same way. I don't think they meant to be nasty. Personally I respect an audience like that. I can't stand an audience who gives applauses like monkeys every 3 seconds for nothing. In some settings, like classical music concerts, this happens often. I can feel that people applaude out of social requirements, rather than because they really want to applaude. They also do it out of habit. I think that sucks.
Especially rich people, do you think they give a damn.... they can get a lot by just giving directions; they simply thought that they are paying for a service (and in that, I can't fault them).
But in the end, you are right, what do you care, just be as pro as possible. It's not worth wondering what other people think of you or why. It's their bag, who cares. Don't even hate them, as it would show in your profession.
If I ever felt this way, I would retire immediately and never play another note in public. At the point I'm identifying applause as an enemy of any sort, I need to find a shrink.
If I had a dollar for every time a client complained to me about other performers who appear to be just going through the motions, or just there to collect a paycheck, I'd be rich.
I'm willing to bet anyone an ice cream sundae that if hammer keeps this gig for 6 months or more, he'll almost certainly develop some friendliness between him and some of these guests. To me, it sounds like they want a Country Club atmosphere in this retirement community. That's cool, I suppose, but even CC's warm to the musicians over time.
Even rich people get old and wind up in the "bad neighborhoods" of the fancy retirement communities. They can play the detached, socially elite game while they're in Independent, but once they're in the Health Centers, they warm up real fast. The appreciation they have for quality entertainment can not be over stated, their reaction to it is genuine, sincere and heartfelt.
I'm pretty sure the old timers like Gary, Donny and Cass will agree with me...