Maybe the Dimple 12 y.o. talking but I have to say this:
Are you all so easily offended? Diki didn't asked for the heavens in his plate to feast upon, just asked a legit question. You or I or others may not like it, but he was invited to ask and he asked. Simple as that.
It is sad to lose a civilised member, I can't agree more, but if you look at it from the other side, If Carol (bless her) was so easily offended by Diki, she wouldn't last that long here. One post going a little left or right and the usual suspects would eat her alive.
Hope Carol acquires the thick skin required and return here, we will all (and she) be privileged.
Carol, thanks for your time and patience in posting here, just think of this forum as a subset of the real world. Enough good people, and also some people misbehaving. So what, join us, have fun. You can't lose.
Trident