I think we serve two different masters. There are events where people specifically want a DJ and some where they want an actual musician performing live for their guests.
I know of DJ's in the Dayton area who take their job extremely seriously, attend professional seminars, take outside courses to improve their public speaking and writing skills, etc. These guys pull down a little over 2 grand for the average wedding and they work a lot.
They have tremendous reputations and shouldn't be disrespected by guys like me.
That said, if the client wants someone to actually perform for their guests, a DJ isn't going to merit much consideration.
Like Chas, I'm really happy playing mostly Nursing Homes. I feel the work is important and the other stuff on the calender just pays the bills.
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Bill in Dayton
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Bill in Dayton