Originally posted by Diki:
It isn't ALWAYS just about you, Ian! 
Yes it is Diki...it has to be always about me...just as you feel it is always about you.
You wouldn't recognize something in me so easily...unless you had it yourself.

How else would you know how to identify it so well?
Don't be glum, chum...being selfish, especially "healthy selfish" is a good thing.
It's also a good thing you and I aren't young enough to know everything.
T'would be boring...
People would enjoy life more if, once they got what they wanted, they could remember how much they wanted it.
Ian