Many thanks guys ...
Tomorrow we make the trip to NY for the wake and funeral ... It's not going to be easy, but Fred has a LARGE family ... (7 kids, all with spouses, grandchildren and great grandchildren) ... I believe the IMMEDIATE family photo consists of about 50 !!! ... There will be a LOT of LOVE being spread around, because that's how Fred would want it ...
Again thnx for your thoughts ... we all face this at one time or another ...

t.