UD, and everyone.
I highly recommend a DVD for you to watch for inspiration called; "The Secret". I have been using these tools for years, but I recently shared this DVD with my wife. After one viewing (she was reluctantly skeptical), she is a changed woman. She is motivated, embraces life, Positive, etc.
Give it to her as a gift!!! (and watch it yourself, you will never be the same)
http://thesecret.tv/ Al