One thing that helped me see the big picture with the QS was a good patch editor. The one that comes with the QS (Unisyn) is pretty bad. I use a shareware editor called QSEdit.
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When you say programming cards do you mean burning memory cards. I don't have any advice there as I haven't done that.
As far as a cable, are you trying to go through the serial port?