Donny, when you're right, you're right (especially about the ego's). Too bad only certain people are allowed to say it . There is one caveat though; it depends on what one's goals are, ie. what's important to them. That could be 1. money, 2. ego-fulfillment/self-gratification, or 3. a genuine desire to improve oneself, musically, spiritually, and professionally. Of the things you listed, I think the most common is thinking one is (much) better than they actually are. This is evidenced by the frequent self-congratulatory statements followed by the fake and phony kudos from their 'supporting cast'. However, 'keeping it real' is not exactly the foundation our warm and fuzzy forum was built upon, and maybe that's a good thing. Given the average age of our forum members, it's unlikely anyone is going to change (nor should they be required to). But an occasional reality check is sometimes good for the soul.

chas (whose mediocrity was recognized early on )

By WHOM ?!?

Anyone with and ear and a brain .

chas

Well, that eliminates a lot of people ...

Of course, you can get all the jobs you wish if you were on a Rolling Stone Magazine cover.

Gary

here we go south again.....

Well, looks like we've got a new forum police. Man, you're like the recently reformed lifetime smoker who now freaks out if he smells even a whiff of smoke . Don't let boredom get to you Donny. Get a hobby (besides posting to Synthzone ). It (boredom) can turn you into a grumpy old man (like me ).

Your best buddy,

chas

This is the time of year when I need to start working on contracts, and ask myself if I want to continue. It's a slow time and I tend to forget how much I enjoy playing out, and think more about booking,equipment,setup,travel etc. I think a tell tale sign for me, aside from loss of call for what I do, is when I go out and see another live performer. I always feel I want to be playing, not just listening. When kicking back and downing a few while listening without any desire to play is enough, then I'll know.

Chas, ......I understand just thought this topic was becoming deep and enjoyable to read & discuss players feeling about a very serious subject we all face in the biz,....sorry if I over did it with concern.