Just wondering, but why is it anyone assumes that it is any different for those that CAN play? I wake up happy every day, owe no-one anything, and thank the Lord He was good enough to bless me with my life's joy, that of playing music. I go to the gig every day happy that I can be creative.
I never got my knuckles rapped at practice, got a teacher who appreciated ear skills and playing by ear as well as reading, and concentrated very little on Hanon and rote learning skills. You guys make it sound as Hanon was the ONLY path to musical fluency. Trust me, it isn't...
Perhaps, instead of getting bitter at the thought of full musical education, you had simply got another teacher, found someone that recognized that Hanon wasn't the be all and end all, you might now be appreciating what you CAN do with decent playing skills, instead of denigrating them as irrelevant in today's market. Trust me, they are only irrelevant if you can't DO them...
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An arranger is just a tool. What matters is what you build with it..!