Originally posted by Bsharp:
You probably would never get to kiss your wife at the stroke of midnight on New Years Eve.
That's OK - he could kiss mine ... she's always home alone on New Years Eve !

Seriously: This job is not for the weak. It is a full time eat/drink/sleep obsession. When you are not doing musical stuff you need to do marketing and business related stuff. When THAT'S done you need to work on gear maintenance and modifications. Wardrobe, schedules, phone skills (Mine NEVER stops ringing) After my 5 day vacation I had 53 emails to answer too.
The BUSINESS of music is as hard as any other business, so prepare yourself. There will be competition, bad conditions, labor issues, space restraints, you name it .... It's not an easy job. Look at how many full timers we have here compared to the part timers or casual players ...... the odds are way out of proportion. The only real open market that is not yet flooded, is the senior circuit - and that a lot of little one hr. shows all over the place, so good, solid transportation is a MUST too.
Music is a gift, and it's great to be able to make a living while you share your gift, but be warned - it's really demanding on your personal life. If you are not called to it with an unyeilding, overwhelming voice .... you might not be cut out for it.
Try a day job first and see how many gigs you can book around that schedule ..... weigh the two salaries, benifits (what are THEY??) and time factors and see if it's still for you.
Eddie's right about the family thing too - it takes a very strong, faithful, understanding woman to stay married to a full time musician......or a bumbling idiot, that works too.

[This message has been edited by Uncle Dave (edited 07-31-2002).]