Oh, so you are trying to make it personally about me now? Way to go off topic.

And, if the songs are only a reflection of the culture, then maybe Bill Cosby has the right idea when he says that maybe certain people are a bit responsible for their own problems. I shouldn't have to defend myself by saying that there are many black people I have huge amounts of respect for; some of whom I've worked with professionally. For all I know, you may be black. It's not the race, it's the attitude. And I refuse to believe that it is only people on my side of the argument who have an attitude.