Bernie, I am a hopeless "jazzer". What I want to play is George Duke's T Jam, Legrande's How do you keep the music playing?, Popsicle Toes, Four, etc. I can get by with that playing simple versions at low volume in country Club dining rooms.
At parties, no one is familiar with what I want to play, and I don't need to play anything I'm not interested in.
It's all a compromise. I will play requests, but, left alone, I head for the stratosphere, tune-wise without ever realizing it.
Russ