Tony, human beings are generally self-centered. I think we all fall into that category, in different degrees. When I post a song, the first thing I do is to look for the people who listened to it – and commented. That’s the human part of us that we try to hide. BUT, when we get rid of that and we listen to the music others have posted, we do enjoy it.

The quickest way to go nuts is to try and figure out other people. (smile)
Just saying, John C.

PS, Tony I wish you would rewrite your post again with a bit more clarity. I struggled to understand parts of it.