Guess I was thinking how difficult it is to gather up a group and form a band... compatibility issues, talent spread, conflicting work or family schedules... and so, the Arranger would allow "work arounds" when certain members who play specific instruments were not available. By all means, having a live group would be your music director's first objective... but, with all the variables I mentioned, the Arranger offers options.
To Don's point... it is sad when those around you choose different paths and interests. You never know, though... as time marches on... opinions and attitudes change. But never forget the influence you have had on so many here at "The Zone"... and in your accumulated friends, fans and admirers who enjoy that unique vocal and great performances every chance they get.