Ill still play at home for me..I'm on the fence right now. Aside from my own desire, I've recently lost yet another person close to me that served as inspiration to continue. Thinking its time to hang it up, I recently got two new gig requests...and accepted. You mentioned your wife..I imagine the support of others many of us are close to can impact the decision greatly. But either way I have played since 6 years old, I won't quit totally after public performing ends.