Tony I feel the people in a N.H. are there to let up and have a good time. Worrying about the right chord or song, or how you are dressed are important but never as important as what they see in the performer.
Are you ready to make fun of yourself? Can you include them in what you’re doing? The song South of the border has a -- aye, aye, aye, aye lyric – If they are not singing that part with me I stop the music and in strong I tell them they have to sing along or else – and then I laugh and go back to the song. A small silly idea but it includes them, hams that they are.

The Shiek if Araby. I’m the Sheik of Araby – with no pants on (the add on after each phrase) Into your tent I’ll creep – with no pants on. The second step is to get them to sing the phrase – with no pants on. They get silly, they laugh and you are having a great time; and they see that, I adds to them having a good time.


If I am playing a wedding or anniversary it is all about the right song at the right tempo at the right volume – and my tux. Years ago the band wore a black jump suit (all one peace) with a matching tux jacket. The shirt was multi-colored. (Vivid coloring) When we were ready to let loose the jackets came off (they received a visual) We set a mood. We then play our most exciting song sets.

aaaaaah, it’s is good to go back to the old days. Ya know I was getting excited writing this. (smile)
John C.
PS, how does HE say it??? – “be so good they can’t ignore you”