At least you and your 'beloved' KB have lasted longer than another 'beloved' couple I am aware of ... many years ago our band was going to play a wedding for this couple ... the drummer and I (co-'leaders' of the band) met with the couple a few times to make all the arrangements ... the groom to be kept calling his bride to be his "beloved" - "what ever my "beloved" wants, I want her to have, nothing is too good for my "beloved" ... well the 'beloved' couple didn't last 6 months after the wedding ... perhaps HE wasn't too good for his 'beloved' either ...