Dave, it's never a one way street man! So I've been told. IMO everyone should be married a minimum of two times.
With the first one you at least learn to put the toilet seat down and which way to squeeze the toothpaste. I've always stayed away from Redheads and I advise you to do the same. They all just look like trouble to me. I think Brunettes are the way to go, Try it you'll like it.