But that's the whole point. We do NOT agree with each other... much of the time!

But isn't there a way to do it without DIRECT attack? Have we GOT to tread on eggshells for fear of someone flaming us? I have no intention of doing so, for one...

Bottom line is, usually, the flamer comes off as the bigger wanker, and it's not exactly keeping me up at night..

But really, do we HAVE to go down that route? If we are capable of polite face to face communication, how come we can't manage it in print?