Maybe we're just using the wrong word, and get the wrong reaction, here.

Let's stop posting 'demos'.

We are NOT 'demonstrators', we are not auditioning for a gig, we are not trying to get a record contract...

Let's start posting 'MUSIC'

Surely that's something that all of us could enjoy doing? You know, playing a little music for our friends and acquaintances, no pressure. After all, we wouldn't even be TALKING about this lady if her music wasn't able to be listened to. SHE had no problem with it. Why should we?

It's just music... No big wup!