You're right - it's over. I spoke with the owner tonight, and he said the drummer was going to be fired until he met me. I carried him this far, but it can't go on like this. He even mentioned that he saw a difference the last two weeks in me - my face is an open book, and he could tell I was unhappy.
I asked for a Wednesday night - he gave it to me, and then told me to give the drummer 2 weeks notice and I can have Thursdays too.

Let's move on folks. This issue is dead.