I have never worked the "old folks" circuit, although I do have great respect for those who do.
Preferring solitude and being lonely are two different things...I find it much easier to be creative when I am alone...others may differ, but that's what makes all this so interesting.
I don't do the vocal thing, so it is hardly a Karaoke gig, and I rehearse enough to keep things fresh and interesting....that's why I'm always gigging I guess, and the constant work keeps me aware of what people want...I always keep a record of requests I may not know at the time and I learn the tunes.
It all boils down to personal satisfaction and contentment to me...why be unhappy playing in a band if it's not what you really want, and it isn't what I want.
No reason for anyone to feel sad for me in my solitary method of making music...I am content...I don't really care if it is not anyone else's idea of how I should go about it...it works for me and it works very well.
Some people need other musicians on stage with them because they are too insecure to go it alone and take all the responsibility... and that's fine too, as long as they are content with it....some want the camaraderie...that's cool too.
Again, it all boils down to what works for each individual...for me it is a solo gig that makes me happier....the extra money is just a sweet by product.
Ian
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