Stevizard,
yes, we all are under pressure most of time...if you think of it, it's frightening how, once you click the "submit reply" button, there's nothing more to do - your words are gone and are there, for the whole world to see...and words can hurt, more than stones, unless you can read what lies behind them...
By the way, thank you all for replying to my question. Here it goes...CLICK.