Don...
It doesn't sound like you did anything wrong. But, I don't think it was an honest test either.
I believe you should try the Bose by playing LIVE...either direct or thru a mixer. And, even then, to get the optimum sound you will probably want to do a little tweaking within your kb in addition to using the PAS preset of your choice.
On the PAS itself, my preferred preset is #57. (I believe Donny and Gary are also using #57.)
I'd be the last guy in the world to say it is the only system anyone should use...but I am loving how clean and definitive everything sounds, the minimum drop-off rate of volume and wide dispersion of sound, especially helpful in odd shaped rooms.
You already know about the other bennies...the small footprint, lightweight, etc.
The bottom line is: its gotta sound good to you or you're not gonna be happy with it.
Eddie