I see no problem in anonimity as far as the basic rules of mutual respect are kept (which I think was The Pro's case).What I do find interesting - and he probably does, too - is how differently people can react to something coming from somebody that doesn't have a face or a name. Shouldn't an opinion, a comment or an advice have a value of itself, regardless of our tranquility in knowing where it comes from?
The Pro exchanged comments with some of the ones that participated in this thread, before, with a real identity, and with no trace of the "crimpy" atmosphere that fluttered initially here. Personally I prefer to read him with his "new" abrasive, loose, authentic style. But there's reason to worry when somebody doesn't feel comfortable expressing his ideas in his own respectful - although abrasive - way, when we can see his face.
About your complex: many could well have envy complexes about your musical technique and originality!...
Ok, back to keyboards... :-)
-- José.