Dear Sunny,

Sorry for the loss of your dear future father-in-law. Now departed from his body, I'm sure he will be happy that his daughter is going to marry someone who loves her so much.

In regards to your own father, you should perhaps go into the eye of the hurricane - that is, approach him with Jennifer at your side, express your intentions, and ask for his blessing. Whether you get it or not, he will respect you for doing the right thing.

Beakybird