Ya know both you guys need to "bury the hatchet" you are both valuable contributors here and you shouldn't let third parties get you all worked up, we need you more than that.
Even though UD can sometimes be abrasive I suspect it is not done with any malice or forethought. And I've noticed he is always the first to extend the olive branch and apologize.
And I've never heard you guys telling people to shut up, or use the kind of gutter language we've heard today.
So can't we all just get along? well most of us anyway.