Fran, I don't think you disagree with us guys and gal. You're saying much the same things as we. What is being said is that the world has changed and parents do what THEY think is good for their children. I think we agree that there is too much structure in EVERYONE'S lives, but we have halped make it that way too.

Oh, for the good old days.
Don't forget, these will be the good old days for our children and thn their children.

Peace - make it happen!